Showing posts with label full-time working mum. Show all posts
Showing posts with label full-time working mum. Show all posts

Friday, June 30, 2017

New Family Market from honestbee - Daily Best Value Prices for the Household + {Promo}

Recently, honestbee has just launched a brand new store called Family Market that focuses on all your family's everyday needs.

Their products range from food, health and beauty essentials, to babycare products and household goods.

I love going grocery shopping. If grocery shopping is considered a hobby, I'd probably list it as one of mine haha.

Even when traveling overseas, I love going to the markets and grocery stores to check out what's new and available {Chicken in a Bisket is back in Singapore by the way!! woot woot}, suss out the daily deals, compare quality and prices for the things I need between different brands, and just basically amble down the aisles...

This is, of course, based on the notion that I have time to spare. For most working parents like me, time is of the essence and just spending more than 30 minutes out grocery shopping is probably considered a luxury.

It's all usually just a grab-and-go, and you probably don't want to be caught wasting time queuing to pay, hustling with the after-work/ weekend crowd or running after your kids after a hard's day of work making sure they don't wander off and knock down a display of toilet paper or something (/。\)

I guess that why most parents I know like the convenience of online grocery shopping.

You can just sit in the comfort of your home to choose the items you need from a website, click to pay and get them delivered to your doorstep in a jiffy. Easy peasy.

And now at Family Market, it makes things even easier and more streamlined for online family shopping as they have identified all the basic essentials used by families in Singapore and grouped them together into 7 simple categories under one roof - Babies, Drinks, Food Cupboard, Health & Beauty, Home, Household & Cleaning and Snacks & Sweets.

Within these categories, they stock the bestselling products with the best prices negotiated daily from their partner stores, without a mark-up. A quick comparison check I did showed that a lot of the items we use at home are about 10-30% cheaper than other online grocery stores. I know because I like to compare prices and get the best value-for-money deals haha... and it's so much easier {and faster!} when it's done online (。^‿^。)

For example, a staple at my home, Quaker Instant Oatmeal Smooth & Creamy 1kg refill, costs S$4.40 in Family Market, but S$5.10 at FairPrice online and S$4.80 at RedMart. Or even a bottle of Dove Beauty Nourishing Body Wash 1L costs S$9.30 in Family Mart, and S$9.75 at both FairPrice and RedMart. Prices correct as of yesterday, Thu 29 Jun 2017.

There are currently around 500 products in this new Family Mart, and they are adding new products to it daily based on market research and customer demand.

Browse through their offerings on the Family Mart website and use my promo link for extra savings! Spend a minimum of S$50 for free delivery and a concierge fee of S$3.99 applies.

Family Market is a part of honestbee, an online grocery store where you can get your shopping from different stores in one order, on the same day AND within an hour #woah

While other online stores available in Singapore can only deliver from one store or inventory, honestbee does not stockpile goods in a warehouse. Instead, their trained shoppers go to stores near you and hand pick every item when you place an order to ensure the widest possible choice of fresh, great quality items. You can even leave very specific instructions for them to follow "e.g. please ask the butcher to chop my meat & separate into 200g packs"!

I like that they have a customer service centre that's open from 9am - 10pm daily. If you want to change your 1-hour delivery time slot or have a question about your order, you can easily speak to someone about it. If your item is out-of-stock or changes need to be made to the order, they will always contact you first for your approval too.

Their partner stores include FairPrice, Emporium Shokuhin {Japanese gourmet grocer}, Le Petit Depot {French supermarket - has Carrefour value-for-money stuff!}, Jones the Grocer, Amazin' Graze, Gastronomia, The Providore and even farm-to-table wholesalers like Fresh Direct {fruits & vegetable from farms around the world} and Foodsterr {health & organic food from US & Australia}.

You'd definitely be spoilt for choice when shopping here *grins*

Promo: Use this link to sign up & get S$10 OFF S$50 at honestbee online concierge and delivery services. Valid for one month from date of your successful account activation.

*Disclosure: This is a sponsored post for honestbee. All opinions are my own.




Friday, June 2, 2017

Bub & Me: Bring Your Kids to Work Day! @ Mummy's Office!

On Wednesday Lil Pumpkin followed me to the office for the day. An unofficial "Bring Your Kids to Work Day" of sorts since my organisation doesn't have the culture of hosting such an event. However, thankfully I've an amazing boss who is a family man and values work-life balance, and understands when we have to bring the kids to work sometimes.

This is the first time I've had Lil Pumpkin at work for almost the whole day actually, although she has been to my office a number of times before, and her preschool was actually located at another end of my workplace.

It's the school holidays now in Singapore so Lil Pumpkin doesn't have any classes in her primary school, although she still has her enrichment classes for Maths {see Comparison of Popular Maths Enrichment Classes}, Chinese, gymnastics and CrossFit. When she was younger, my mum used to help take care of her during the hols but now that she's older and easier to care for, Lil Pumpkin follows the boy to the clinic {she's a "Vet for a Day", everyday!! haha} and wherever he goes while I'm at work. It's more convenient since the boy doesn't have to make trips to so many different places and her enrichment classes are near his clinic. 

She still goes to my mum's place once in a while though, especially if her cousins are there :)

Wanted to give the boy a break to go for a back massage after his morning shift as he sprained it during aerial yoga {the teacher was too hardcore..} so he dropped Lil Pumpkin and me at the office in the morning.

Lil Pumpkin made good use of my "makeshift bed" {aka thick exercise mat} hehe and actually slept most of the morning away until lunch-time. When she woke up, we went for a sumptuous Western grill lunch and I was pretty surprised that she finished most of her steak!! 

Ever since she was a baby... I always loved seeing her eat well and full hehe.

Brought her around a bit and it's nice showing her snippets of what I do, who I work with and why Mummy is away most of the day. It's always hard shaking off the working mum's guilt and nothing much has changed ever since I wrote "What's A FTWM's Worth?" 2 years ago.

Every other day I feel guilty about not spending enough time with Lil Pumpkin, every other day I worry that I'm missing out on her childhood milestones.. But yet every other day I feel at peace with my choice and am grateful to be able to share hubby's burden, help with the household finances, give Lil Pumpkin some luxuries in life, show her that women can succeed professionally, and also have a little "me-time" with stimulating adult conversations.

I always think that I have a rather uninteresting office job but nonetheless, I'm really happy to have shared my day with Lil Pumpkin. She was a really good girl in not disturbing me when I had to concentrate at work by doing her holiday homework, reading and working on her latest craze - crossword puzzles & word searches haha.

Thank you for keeping Mummy company at work that day, my darling! I hope to have more of such days with you again soon ♥

Do you bring your kids to work?
How does it benefit you and your kids?




Friday, September 23, 2016

TYR Singapore Showroom Swim Gear Shopping

Recently I went down to the TYR Showroom at Bukit Merah with Jo to check out on swimsuits and gear for myself and Lil Pumpkin. TYR is a USA manufacturer of recreational & competitive swimwear, swim caps, swimming goggles, triathlon gear etc. and is one of the most popular brands among the swimming community.

You can find TYR merchandise at World of Sports outlets but the showroom sells a much wider array of TYR swim wear, googles, caps, training equipment etc. Also, if you belong to {selected?} swim teams, you also get discounts off your purchases. I think it's about 30% off!! (*^▽^*)

It's been a long time since I swam competitively. When I first joined my organisation about 5 years ago, I was quite active in the swim team and took part in my first and only Masters Swimming Championship ੧(❛▿❛✿)੭

Since then, I stopped regular swim training and just liked frolicking in the waters.. after all, I'd been swimming competitively almost half my life, so it was nice to just finally enjoy the cool, relaxing waters.

A few weeks ago, Jo told me that she was going to take part in this year's Masters Swimming Championship for her club. She asked if I wanted to join too and a part of me stirred. After all, once a swimmer, always a swimmer haha.

Things got busy at home and work so that was put aside until recently, I received an email from my organisation's swim team calling for participants to represent them in the Masters Swimming Championship. Oh was that a sign??

After encouragement from Jo and hubby, I finally put my name down and signed up to compete last week with some random seed times for the events I wanted to take part in haha. Goodness, I didn't even have a proper one-piece swim costume {I prefer two-piece tankinis as they are easier to go toilet in heh} and had to go find one to compete in!!

It's been so long that I wasn't even sure of my costume size... Finding a swimming costume isn't all that easy, especially if you want to wear it to a competition. I mean if you're just wearing it to the occasional visit to the pool it might be fine if it doesn't fit completely well, but if you want to wear it to compete in.. it needs to fit like a glove. Too tight and your boobs / butt will fall out plus you might get a wedgie, too loose and it was "expand" in the water and catch air bubbles.

Also, there will be spectators watching the competition so you definitely want to avoid any awkward situations!! (〃⌒∇⌒)

Tucked away in one of the warehouse buildings in the industrial area, the TYR showroom was really quiet when we went on a weekday... which is pretty good since you don't need to jostle with the crowd and can take your own sweet time browsing and trying the items.

Jo was looking for some rashies for her little girls but she didn't find anything that she liked.

There's a very good selection of goggles here.. Lil Pumpkin and I are currently using TYR Velocity Metallized googles which has UV-protected and anti-fog properties, silicone cushion gaskets, double silicone headstraps and an adjustable nose-piece. But most importantly I like that it has  mirrored lenses which is really useful on sunny days, especially when you are swimming back-stroke.

I wanted to get some silicone swim caps with cute slogons or designs but they didn't have many of that and I didn't find any that I fancied. The showroom stocked mostly plain coloured silicone caps as the staff said most Singaporeans preferred those heh.

There are also waterproof bags, mesh bags, noodles, kick boards, paddles, hand paddles etc.

I bought a big nylon mesh bag for Lil Pumpkin to use during her swim class to put her swim gear and kick board. The open weave mesh means I can still leave her board etc in the bag and they will still dry easily.

There's a diverse assortment of swimwear patterns and colours for casual and competitive swimmers, but I was expecting even more.

Jo was too. She said they did use to have much more swimsuit choices.. but now they seem to sell more triathlon stuff.

I liked these 2 swimwear patterns and had a hard time choosing just one haha. I already bought 2 new Speedo swimsuits before our visit and highly doubted I was going to take part in any more swim meets after this one haha..

In the end, I chose the bright, geometric design. It was the first one that caught my eye!

Some of the triathlon gear spotted.

I have utmost respect for triathletes. Swimming is already so tough, imagine having to swim, run AND cycle consecutively over long distances!!! *clap clap clap*

After our little shopping trip we went to have some delicious Mexican food at Guzman Y Gomez, Star Vista. So awesome!!! They are really generous with the portions and I always leave feeling so full, and so satisfied (*^▽^)/

It was a really fun mummies-day-out for us! Thanks for the company, Jo!

Anyway, go visit the TYR showroom if you or your kids are into swimming!! But in case there are any policy changes in regards to the swim team discounts, please check with them first, ok?

TYR Showroom
8, Jalan Kilang Timor, #03-01 Kewalram House
Open 10am - 5pm {Mon - Fri}, 10am - 12pm {Sat}. Closed Sun & public holidays
Tel: 6702 6734
Website: http://www.tyr.com.sg



Monday, April 11, 2016

Bub & Me: Vet for A Day @ Clinic For Pets

Quite some time back Lil Pumpkin attended the 'Doctor for a Day' programme at Mount Elizabeth Novena where children can get a taste of what it's like to be a doctor. It was about an hour's program and she went around tending to patients and responding to various make-believe medical scenarios in the hospital.

I thought it was a very good experience made even more real with the white doctor coat she was wearing so when I saw a Vet costume on sale at ELC, I couldn't help but get the set for her to wear when she goes to her daddy's vet clinic to have her own fun "Vet for A Day" experiences haha.

In case you didn't already know, my mother-in-law is a vet too and Clinic for Pets, the vet clinic that the boy works at is a family business. My mother-in-law opened it in 1980 and its been around for almost as long as the boy.. 36 years!!

Ever since he was a small boy, the boy has been helping out in the clinic too and that's where he first got his inspiration to be a vet. Keeping up with tradition and also out of necessity sometimes due to our busy schedules, the boy has also been bringing Lil Pumpkin to work and she's at the clinic once a week. 

When he has time, the boy will teach Lil Pumpkin about the animals and even give her hands-on experiences in helping him check the animals and preparing for the surgeries. She loves this special time she has with her daddy and has told us on a few occasions that she'd want to be a vet when she grows up too. Of course on these occasions, we took the opportunity to tell her that she would have to study very, very hard then and make sure she performs academically :P

Personally, I think it's wonderful if she can carry on this family business but even if she doesn't, I still like that she's learning how to care for and be kind to animals from her daddy. Nowadays, we often hear many stories about animal abuse and abandonment.. if we can raise one little human being to prevent this and spread the word about loving the animals properly, it would not be one too many.

Bringing Lil Pumpkin to work is beneficial to her in so many ways. She gets to see first-hand the ups and downs of her daddy's job {being a vet doesn't mean just playing with animals - sometimes they have to clean poo & vomit too!}, his responsibilities and learn the value of hard work and persistence. Yup, she understands that money doesn't drop from trees haha.

Lil Pumpkin also gets to build her confidence and communicate with people from all kinds of backgrounds as she sits in her daddy's consultations and hangs out the clinic staff & neighbouring shopkeepers {if the clinic gets too busy my MIL will bring her out to eat and play}. When she gets assigned small, tasks like folding towels, walking the animals or packing the medicine, it exposes her to new way of working, thinking and moving.


For the boy, having Lil Pumpkin in the clinic also motivates him to work harder and set a good example so it really is a win-win situation.

Unfortunately, I can't bring Lil Pumpkin to work with me as we don't have that culture in my organisation but she has been to my office more than a few times in the past when the boy sent / dropped me off at work. I've actually suggested to our HR to have "Bring Our Kids to Work Days" but so far, they haven't given it the green light yet haha.

Do you bring your kids to work?
How does it benefit you and your kids?



Friday, April 1, 2016

More Time for Life.. More Time for You


This year, I took a step back from a lot of things. Well, actually it's been a while that I've been trying to cut back on work and blogging commitments to focus on the family and personal growth, but you'd probably have noticed that it's even more so this year. 

And honestly, I do love it.

There is more time to bring Lil Pumpkin to the playgrounds, cook for the family, hold conversations and listen, exercise, read.. and sometimes even just do nothing at all.

My daily schedule doesn't seem any less packed, but it definitely feels much less "rushed", if you understand what I mean. I'm not always racing to tick off an item on my to-do list, and can actually happily relish in the moment I'm in.

I recently read an article about Gurmit Singh leaving the entertainment industry in 2014 to spend time with his family. Actually I don't really watch local TV so didn't realise that he did #oops But he said something about a painful epiphany when he learnt his elder daughter thought of him a “mythical creature” during her growing years. She never knew when he was leaving, or coming home, he explained.

I don't want Lil Pumpkin to ever think of me in such a way, and although I still can't ideally take care of her full-time since I'm still working, at least I'm present more. And knowing that I'm around more for her, and doing more of what I like, makes me feel happier, and more positive.. which rubs off on the people around me I guess.


It feels like a good place that I'm at right now



Monday, June 1, 2015

Never Get So Busy Making A Living, You Forget to Live

Ahhh how nice it is to enjoy a long weekend straight after coming back from a weekend vacay for my birthday in Vietnam! :P I love not worrying when my alarm would ring, waking up as my body wants next to Lil Pumpkin {my poor hubby still has to go to work!}, seeing her sweet morning smile and doing our "piggy nose rub". And of course, not going through our hectic morning schedule.

I don't watch The Daily Show but earlier the year its host, Jon Stewart, announced that he was leaving the show after 19 years. I read an article on why he decided to leave, which partly stemmed from an increasing sense of dissatisfaction.

Jon Stewart said, "It’s not like I thought the show wasn’t working any more, or that I didn’t know how to do it. It was more, ‘Yup, it’s working. But I’m not getting the same satisfaction,’” he said. “These things are cyclical. You have moments of dissatisfaction, and then you come out of it and it’s okay. But the cycles become longer and more entrenched, and that’s when you realize, ‘Okay, I’m on the back side of it now.’"

I can relate to that. Work for me is pretty mundane as the scope is not something I'm interested in and it is a chore for me to go to work every weekday. But it's something I've accepted to do since my boss is amazing, there is no overtime, I've a good working environment with healthcare benefits and also because Lil Pumpkin is in her current preschool / childcare.

Once I leave my current company, I've to find her another preschool/ childcare as it is only for the children of my company staff. And I don't want to do that as we like her preschool and she's happy there.

Like what Jon said, you have moments of dissatisfaction, and then you come out of it. I usually come out of it when I think of reasons why I've to do it, but it's really getting harder and harder.

The boy thinks that it's just that I don't want to work. Not that true because I just don't want to work in my current job anymore. If I've something else that I want to do, a dream job where perhaps I get to interact with more Japanese, go traveling, is more challenging and closer to my interests.. then yeah I'd like to do that.

Not that I have it, but I think the longer I stay on in my current job, the less likely I'd go look for it.. or work on other things that make me happy - like blogging, or spend time with people that make me happy - like Lil Pumpkin.

Lately, I feel that 5 out of 7 days, I wake up somewhat feeling life sucks because I've to go to a job that I don't really like. Of course I am grateful for the job stability and income, but that's not really the way to live, right?

What if I suddenly passed away in my sleep? I can say now that I will have many regrets if I die tonight.

And so, I've decided to go part-time next year after Lil Pumpkin leaves preschool, or maybe even quit my current job. Firstly, it'll give me more time to spend with Lil Pumpkin after her school {supervise her work, bring her out, rest, do stuff}, secondly it'll also give me more time to work on what I like and maybe even find a better job I'd love more.

I guess that means less money to spend and travel until something comes in to fill the income gap but I can live with that if it means I'll be happier on a higher percentage of the week. It is ridiculous to always wait and look forward to the weekend, the next break, the next travel vacation. I want to make a change to have more happiness in my life every day. 

There are too many uncertainties when it comes to a big life decision like a job change. But if I don't try, I'll never know. I'm 32 next year and personally, that's kinda old already to not be doing what I want to do.

Thought of changing jobs or changing from a FTWM to a SAHM?
How did you handle the change? 

P.S. Photos are from our sunny Gold Coast trip last year :) So awesome!

P.P.S. Don't forget to take part in my The Wind in the Willows Family Performance Tickets giveaway {worth S$248} which ends on Wed 3 Jun 2015!



Friday, March 13, 2015

What's a Full-Time Working Mum {FTWM} worth?

I've been a Full-Time Working Mum {FTWM} for the past nearly 5 years, soon after Lil Pumpkin turned 1 years old. In the first year of her life, I chose to be a Stay-At-Home Mum {SAHM} to take care of her full-time.

For the past 5 years, I've been at the same job and I'm blessed to have found something that does not require me to do OT, work shifts, and have a caring boss that values work-life balance. Work has thankfully, been rather smooth-sailing.

But my feelings haven't. For the past 5 years the thought of being a FTWM, or not, has been rather tumultuous. Every other day I feel guilty about not spending enough time with Lil Pumpkin, every other day I worry that I'm missing out on her childhood milestones.. But yet every other day I feel more at peace with my choice and am grateful to be able to share hubby's burden, help with the household finances, give Lil Pumpkin some luxuries in life, show her that women can succeed professionally, and also have a little "me-time" with stimulating adult conversations. I think most working mums can relate with me on this.

Recently, there's been much talk about the worth of a SAHM thanks to our Annual Budget season. I admire those that have made the choice to put their kids first, to not be part of the rat race and be there for the family 24/7. Really, you have my utmost respect and as I mentioned above, sometimes I want to be you again and as life changes, might do so in the future.

However, through all the chatter, I'm getting the feeling that some people think that SAHMs are better mums and may be "worth" more than a FTWMs. When applauding the SAHMs, they put down and dismiss the contributions of FTWMs.

These people may not mean it, but that's the implication I get when I hear someone say something like "if you're only around a few hours a day, how can you instil good values in the kids", or "how can a mum bring up a child well if she's tossing them to others to take care of" or "wow you chose a family over a career.. you must really love your kids a lot".

Does that mean we FTWMs love our kids any less? Does that mean by going out to earn our keep we don't want the best for our family too? Does being a FTWM mean we are damaging the family unit?? Are hard work, independence and perseverance not good values?


I'm not here to say that one is better than the other, because I believe it's not. To be a SAHM or a FTWM, both are just as important to the kids, a family or society. We just contribute in different ways.

Just like how some ignorant people think SAHMs are poorly educated or shake legs and do nothing all day, some have the misconception that FTWMs leave the responsibility of raising their kids solely to the maid or some other care-giver and are never there for school pick-ups, story-times or family meals. I know the job of a FTWM doesn't end the minute we leave workplace. We go home, we cook, we clean, we coach the kids, we bathe them and we put them to sleep. And then the cycle starts again with the new day. We too are the chefs, the maids, the educators, the family financial planners, and so much more. 

We all have different reasons why we choose to work, and here are some of mine. But I think as FTWMs, although we may not be able to spend time with the kids all day, we may have to outsource our duties and our house may get neglected sometimes, that doesn't mean we love our children and families any less. 

I guess I just wanted to remind my fellow working mums, or those thinking of becoming one, to not be discouraged and feel guilt, envy and resentment when you hear the benefits of being a SAHM to our children, to our home. Our worth is no less, we are not "second-class" mums and we are definitely not defined by pay we get at our jobs either.

The work of a mother, any kind of mother be she a SAHM, FTWM, PTWM {Part-Time Working Mum}, or even a WAHM {Work-At-Home Mum}, is priceless, and it's hard to put a monetary value to it because of all the intangibles. We are all making sacrifices, one way or another.

To me, the question shouldn't be about how much a SAHM or FTWM is worth. It just builds tension between those that work and those that stay at home. What matters is, does the family have the social and financial support that they need to make sure children are getting the education and care that they need to develop and grow into useful human beings, regardless of whether the mum is working or not?

If a working mum has access to high quality affordable childcare, and supportive work environment e.g. flexible hours that allows her to be a good parent, then there won't be a debate on whether staying at home, or not, is good for the child, or not. It's when the trade-off between work and family is so big that people tend to see one as being more superior to the other. Maternal presence is important to a child's development, no doubt, but so are other factors too.

Whatever it is, let's not overgeneralise and be sensitive when making our points. For the people who want to judge our parenting choices for the work that we do, please don't forget that FTWMs are mothers too. We too care for, and can raise happy, good children too.



Friday, December 26, 2014

Blog Break | Seeya in 2015!



Hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas! We had a lovely, quiet one with our families and will be celebrating with close friends this weekend.

I came back to work today but my work computer broke down again!! I think it's the third or fourth time since I've been working here for the past 4 years. IT guys haven't come by to fix it yet but we're probably going to get a new one since it's not under warranty anymore anyway.

Another sad news is that my hand wound opened up and started to bleed a little again so I was back at the clinic earlier to get it looked at. Maybe I've been moving it too much (。-_-。) Anyway they used Epiglue to literally glue the laceration shut and bandaged it up again.

I want it to heal properly and will be taking the opportunity to have a blog break for at least a week until the new year so that I won't be typing / moving it much unnecessarily. I'm actually typing this whole post on my mobile with my right hand haha.. However, you know my right hand gives me probs sometimes too and I don't want to do it often and strain it much.

Not gonna reply to emails much either but will be contactable via my social media platforms on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram for short messages ( ´ ▽ ` )ノ

Wishing you all a Blessed New Year with your loved ones! Stay safe and healthy!!



Monday, December 1, 2014

Glitter Glam Matchy-Matchy Dresses for the Festivities + {Giveaway & Promo}

Well the holiday festivities have officially started as we enter into December today. Christmas celebrations, New Year parties, Chinese New Year get-togethers... all happening one after another and all very good reasons to get new clothes and dress-up!

This is our newest matchy-matchy set from Glitter Glam & it's kids label spin-off - Mary Had A Little Lamb. The Teal Boxed Dress creates an ombré visual effect, adding a twist to this 80s-inspired dress. Again, I love the classy and structured dress cut that's flattering to the both of us. Not too kiddy for me, and not too dated for Lil Pumpkin.

The cotton material is super soft and kind of stretchy, so even though I wear a size M for most of my other Glitter Glam dresses, I'm wearing a size S for this. We wore it to the Madame Tussauds opening preview and it was really comfortable throughout the day. I like to wear matchy-matchy clothes with Lil Pumpkin anytime, but one reason I wear it to events and crowded places is in case she gets lost *touch wood* so that others can easily recognise she's my daughter. I've also taught her to tell people to look for her mummy in a matching dress if they can help her!! Good idea, right?? :P

Anyway Glitter Glam and Mary Had A Little Lamb has lots of other amazing outfits which are now easily available on their new shopping website. Very clean and user-friendly, you can easily browse their whole collection online and purchase all at the simple click of a button, without having to leave the comfort of your home and braving the holiday crowds at the shopping malls!!

They just released their Christmas collection last week :) Lots of chic blacks, elegant whites and sparkling glitters to shine at any party. 

Personally, I prefer to wear dresses but they have other rompers, tops, bottoms and outer wear as well. Some of these, like the Poppy Red Chiffon Teardrop dress and Leaves Printed romper, have caught my eye too. There's no minimum purchase for free delivery to all Singapore addresses, overseas shipping is available and you can choose to self-collect at their Harbourfront store too. Like their physical outlets, new stylish designs come in every week in their online shop.

If you need some tips on how to work the matchy-matchy mini-me fashion trend, check out a previous interview I did with RazorTV. It was thanks to them that I got to know Mary, owner of Glitter Glam and Mary Had A Little Lamb. Unbeknownst to her, I actually liked Glitter Glam ever since I tried on my first Glitter Glam dress back when they still had a shop in 313@Somerset in 2011 :P It's great to see how far this local brand has grown stronger through the years #sgpride

The clothes here are really well-made, and the same attention to detail in their womenswear is shown in their kids line as well. It's no wonder that local celeb mums like Jamie Yeo like their matchy-matchy outfits too for their precious bubs and if you noticed, Glitter Glam clothes are also worn a lot by our local newscasters and MediaCorp presenters as the their designs make stunning professional workwear. As a full-time working mum, I like that they are versatile enough for me to wear at family outings for a matching mother-daughter look, and on its own in the office as well.   

Promo: Quote "AiSakura30" for 20% off ALL all Glitter Glam & Mary Had A Little Lamb regular-priced clothes & accessories from their online store. Valid for first-time purchases until 31 Dec 2014 only. Free shipping to Singapore addresses and overseas shipping available.

Just for my special blog readers and friends only, I have ONE Glitter Glam x Mary Had A Little Lamb Matching Mother-Child Outfits of Choice Set to give away! Choose one piece of any matchy-matchy design you like for you and your kid! Glitter Glam clothing is available in sizes S - XL, while Mary Had A Little Lamb fits little boys and girls aged 1 - 9 years old.

Giveaway Method: Random Draw

1. Be a Sakura Haruka Facebook page fan

2. Be a Glitter Glam Facebook page fan

3. Like & Share this Facebook photo and tag a friend. Make sure your post is public!

4. Leave me a blog comment telling me your fave kids' party game + FB name you used to like the pages + email add. For those unsure of how to comment, choose "Name/URL" option then add your name and comment. If you prefer to send me your email add privately, leave a comment for the other answers then contact me at sakuraharuka {at} live {dot} com.

Bonus entry:
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UPDATE: The giveaway has ended. The winner is Mag Yeow. Stay tuned for more blog giveaways on Sakura Haruka! Check out my current readers promos too. Thanks for your support!

* Disclosure: Glitter Glam & Mary Had A Little Lamb provided the dresses for review and giveaway. All other accessories belong to me, and all opinions are my own.



Friday, October 17, 2014

Singapore Cheongsams :: Lark and Peony Modern Cheongsam Shopping + {Promo Code}

Nami Blue
The last few days, Lark & Peony did it again and sent part of the cheongsam-loving community crazy by launching their new modern cheongsams made with vintage fabric prints from Japan. I heard Mori in Green was technically "sold out" even before sale started with the preorder enquiries, and Mikan Orange in size M was out within minutes!! Really crazy.

Mikan Orange
Thankfully, I was down at their atelier to have a sneak peek and to purchase some of my favourite designs from the vintage collection beforehand. I saw all 9 designs they are going to release in the upcoming months, and was really delighted! It took a lot of will-power and holding back from the boy to prevent me from buying each piece haha. With the full-circle skirt, deep functional pockets, sexy back cut-out design and 3 tiny neck buttons at the collar, it is really hard not to fall in love with this new dress silhouette.

The boy liked them too but said that these few dresses barely look like cheongsams, even modern cheongsams. However, I think the mandarin collar is a dead giveaway because when I think of cheongsams, that's one of the most prominent features.

The collar is shorter than most previous designs at 2.5cm, but fits the overall relaxed feel of the dress. It gives it a subtle hint of the Orient, and for someone who has never worn a traditional cheongsam or modern cheongsam before, but would like to, it makes for a fine choice as it's just a baby step in that direction and not too overwhelming.

Nami Blue
I'm fine with the shorter collar, as together with the open back and light Indian cotton material, it makes for a very comfortable dress in our hot weather, even to Sentosa when we visited RWS S.E.A. Aquarium last weekend. However, I would have preferred the collar to be stiffer and more fitted around the neck like the Hsih Shih {classic cut} or Yokihi designs though. Maybe you need a higher collar for that "effect", or cut the opening smaller.

In the end, I went away with MikanPaisley Red {out on 20 Oct 14} & Nami Blue {out on 27 Oct 14}. Mikan is just so refreshing & somewhat reminds me of Perankan tiles {saving this for CNY next year!!}, Persian Paisley has such a rich orange hue and I love that Nami Blue has such beautiful blue and green shades in the various florals.

Paisley Red
I'm wearing size M and they all fitted me perfectly for the bust and waist. If you find the usual pleated skirt designs {also known as the Yokihi style in Lark & Peony language} for modern cheongsams too "boxy", the new vintage line from Lark & Peony will be an excellent choice. The full circle skirt is very flowy and feminine... ready for you to swish into happy tea parties or laughing twirl sessions with your kid :)

Paisley Red
Remember that scene in "You've Got Mail" where Meg Ryan was talking about twirling with her mum when she was a little girl? I wished I had a daughter then to do that too and I'm so glad that now, I do. Lil Pumpkin certainly enjoyed that and kept asking me to go again, and again... and again!!

Here are 3 things I like about shopping at Lark & Peony, and tips you should be aware of too:

Hsih Shih in Midnight Bamboo
1. Physical fittings before purchase {by appointment only}
Although Lark & Peony is an online boutique, all customers are encouraged to come try on the dresses at their small atelier if they're unsure because the fit of the cheongsam is so important. I wish more online cheongsam boutiques offered this service.

Being the OCD shopper that I am, this really appeals to me. Some fabrics have more give than others so you wouldn't know how the dress would fit until you put it on. Also, you get to try on designs that you might not be very keen on, but end up loving!

Like this Hsih Shih in Midnight Bamboo. It wasn't something that caught my eye immediately but when I tried it on.. Wow!! I like the Asian feel and the symbolism behind the bamboo. One of the most impressive thing about the bamboo is how flexible it is. The foundation is solid, yet it moves and sways harmoniously with the wind, never fighting against it. So, even when the strong wind tires itself out, but the bamboo remains standing tall and still.

There's an old proverb that goes "the bamboo that bends is stronger than the oak that resists". I'd like to apply this more to my life to be less headstrong, and more accommodating even in circumstances that may not go my way. I will not be defeated!! :)

Hsih Shi in Midnight Bamboo
2. Customisations available
Minor changes, like adding buttons are free. Size alterations are available {S$10 onwards}, but Lark & Peony doesn't encourage altering the cheongsam unless absolutely necessary so that it doesn't compromise the integrity of the dress. Their website states the standard S/M/L/XL sizes, but sometimes, and I'm talking about really small quantities, they have in-between sizes like S+ or M+ which you can enquire about. This is one good reason why you should go for physical fittings before purchase.

Hsih Shih in Midnight Bamboo
3. Timeless style
I like cutesy prints too, but sometimex, I find that I tend to tire of them pretty fast. Although Lark & Peony has cute prints {fyi, some are in the pipeline for next Chinese New Year!}, the focus of their design is for the sophisticated woman who would like to hand down their precious pieces to the next generation.

One reason why I hardly buy costume jewelry is precisely because of this reason. Fast and cheap fashion means you keep buying and discarding items that get worn out quickly. I've always loved longevity in my jewelry that I can pass on to Lil Pumpkin, and now I'm beginning to want thoughtful clothing that has longevity in my wardrobe too, which is where the well-constructed Lark & Peony modern cheongsams come in.

You'll find that most of their designs won't get phased out after each season and will look timeless no matter when you bought them, or where you wear it... which is really how cheongsams should be.

I brought Yokihi in Turquoise Peony to Problogger Event 2014 and had tons of compliments from the Aussies too ;) I think even if Lil Pumpkin wore this 20 years from now, she'll still look great in it :P

Yokihi in Turquoise Peony
Ok enough gushing from me. There's still one more design in their Princess Pingyang workwear range to be released, and stay updated via their Facebook page. Good to be a member on their shopping site too as there's no pre-orders taken for the vintage collection, so it's really fastest fingers first!

Yokihi in Turquoise Peony
You can also see my current list of places to buy cheongsams in Singapore here.

Promo: Quote "SAKURA10" for S$10 off each total cart purchase {includes sales items} at Lark & Peony online boutique. Valid for multiple purchases until 31 Oct 2014 only. Free shipping to Singapore addresses and overseas shipping available.

* Disclosure: Lark and Peony provided Hsih Shih in Midnight Bamboo & Yokihi in Turquoise Peony for review. Vintage collection cheongsams were purchased separately. All opinions are my own.